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Why can it be so hard to leave a relationship that has run its course?
When we are in a relationship, we often thinking ahead to the future.  Imagining ourselves as a couple, living our lives together.  But when happens when a relationship has run its course?  I spoke to The i Paper for an article all about the red flags that we might ignore - and why .  The tricky thing about red flags is that they are not always obvious.  Sometimes it's just the small, subtle things that make a difference.  There's a twinge of a gut feeling that tells us somet

Georgina Sturmer
4 days ago3 min read


Wired for Connection: The risks behind relationships with AI companions and chatbots
Last night I was invited onto ITV News to talk about relationships.  The focus was on the rise in AI companions.  These are chatbots created by tech companies, designed to offer friendship, companionship, and relationships to people who might be feeling lonely, isolated, or simply in need of something different in terms of interaction.  It's a topic that I find frightening and fascinating in equal measure.  

Georgina Sturmer
7 days ago6 min read


The DOSE Effect: How four simple letters can help you feel more in control of your mood
The DOSE Effect: 
How four simple letters can help you feel more in control of your mood

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 52 min read


How to spot red flags in your relationship
I spend a lot of time talking and thinking about our 'gut' feelings.  Those spidey senses that things aren't quite right in our lives or...

Georgina Sturmer
Sep 73 min read


We talk a lot about boundaries — but what if they’re the problem instead of the solution?
Boundaries often play a central role in therapy.  But as we talk more about boundaries, it can start to feel like they're always a good...

Georgina Sturmer
Aug 74 min read


Feeling lonely after becoming a mum? You’re not alone
Loneliness can be one of the quietest struggles of motherhood.  You're not physically alone.  I n fact, you're rarely by yourself.  But...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 233 min read


What’s driving your behaviour? Meet your Inner Parent, Adult, and Child
Do you ever find yourself repeating the same conversations or negotiations over and over again – but ending up in exactly the same place,...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 93 min read


Saying NO without the guilt
Elton John told us that  'sorry seems to be the hardest word' .  I would agree that for some of us, apologies don't roll off the tongue...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 75 min read


When is a Window more powerful than a Mirror? The 'Johari Window' and self-awareness
When is a window more powerful than a mirror?
Discover how the Johari Window—a simple but powerful model—can deepen your self-awareness by revealing what you and others see about yourself. Learn practical ways to use this tool both with others and on your own to boost your self-esteem and understand your patterns better.

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 94 min read


Tired of Putting Everyone First? Let’s Talk About People Pleasing
Ever find yourself saying 'yes' when you really mean 'no'?  Apologising for things that aren’t your fault?  You're not alone.  People...

Georgina Sturmer
May 234 min read


How to overcome FOMO and embrace your alone time at Christmas
In case you haven't heard, Christmas is on the way. There's an expectation that our inbox will be awash with social invites. But what if...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 29, 20244 min read


How to find a therapist
It can be a daunting process, trying to find a therapist. I know, I’ve been there myself.  Tripping up on jargon.  Scrolling through...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 4, 20249 min read


Do you experience 'free time anxiety'?
I've talked about the idea of 'productivity anxiety' in the workplace for this article  in Yahoo News .  But I also wanted to take a...

Georgina Sturmer
Aug 8, 20243 min read


Coping with dating app burnout
When dating websites and apps arrived on the scene, they were afforded a warm welcome.  Being able to search online for the perfect match...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 29, 20242 min read


Are you an approval addict? Exploring people-pleasing and approval-seeking
Are you an approval addict? I spoke to The Sun all about people-pleasing and approval-seeking.  Click here to read the full article.  To...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 15, 20242 min read


The truth about coercive control: warning signs, and what to do
When we talk about coercive control, we are talking about an act, or a series of acts, that are designed to manipulate, intimidate,...

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 28, 20244 min read


How to cope when friendships shift and splinter
Our modern society allows us the opportunity for so much more diversity, transition and change in our life choices than ever before....

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 7, 20243 min read


Are you hooked on praise? Exploring validation addiction
It's totally natural to seek validation from those around us.  It's a human instinct.  It's how we understand whether our behaviour is...

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 1, 20244 min read


Why am I always apologising?
'I'm sorry'.  Sound familiar?  Apologies are important.  They offer us an opportunity to explain our behaviour and offer our regrets when...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 29, 20242 min read


Coping with the death of a colleague
When a colleague has died, it presents us with a clash of relationships, expectations, boundaries and behaviour.  In most circumstances...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 17, 20243 min read
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