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How to cope when friendships shift and splinter
Our modern society allows us the opportunity for so much more diversity, transition and change in our life choices than ever before....

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 7, 20243 min read


Are you hooked on praise? Exploring validation addiction
It's totally natural to seek validation from those around us. It's a human instinct. It's how we understand whether our behaviour is...

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 1, 20244 min read


Coping with a relationship breakup
Regardless of the circumstances of our breakup, it can feel strange and unsettling to be newly single. I spoke to Yahoo News all about...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 12, 20243 min read


What can we learn from 'The Bird Test'?
Social media has led to an explosion in theories and new terminology to capture the essence of human behaviour. In previous posts, I've...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 26, 20243 min read


Family estrangement: coping with conflict and crisis
We all know the phrase, 'you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family'. Some of us are fortunate enough to have...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 19, 20243 min read


Relationships and money, are you financially compatible?
We're not very good at talking about money. Perhaps that's a terribly sweeping generalisation. But it often strikes me that even...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 3, 20243 min read


Parent Mental Health Day: creating positive family relationships
Tomorrow is 'Parent Mental Health Day', and this year's theme is all about 'creating positive relationships' in families. I was asked by...

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 26, 20242 min read


How to support a friend who has lost a loved one
Grief can leave us lost for words.
If you’re wondering how to support a friend who has lost a loved one, you’re not alone. This blog offers gentle, practical ideas to help you feel more confident in reaching out – whether it’s knowing what to say, what to offer, or when to simply be there.

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 26, 20244 min read


Love and loss, thinking about dating after bereavement
I've written before about dating after bereavement. Last time, the focus of the piece was on how we consider dating after bereavement,...

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 10, 20244 min read


What is a 'depression support list'?
If we are experiencing depression, it can be hard to know what we need, and to communicate that to the people around us. So when the...

Georgina Sturmer
Dec 16, 20233 min read


How do you know if you're in a toxic relationship?
Some relationships should come with a health warning. But a toxic relationship doesn't always announce its arrival with a fanfare and a...

Georgina Sturmer
Dec 11, 20233 min read


Would you consider befriending your partner's ex?
Would you consider befriending your partner's ex? I was asked to think about this for a piece that was written in The Independent all...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 27, 20233 min read


What is the 'orange peel theory', and what does it reveal about our relationships?
Have you heard about the 'orange peel theory'? Before this week, I hadn't either. Well, I hadn't heard of it packaged up in this way. ...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 25, 20234 min read


Scrolling on your socials, do you find yourself keeping tabs on people who you don't like?
The advent of social media has made it infinitely easier to keep in touch with what's going on with those around us. But this also means...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 20, 20233 min read


Coping with 'pre-death' grief, when grief comes before a loss
Sometimes grief comes before a loss. If we know that a loss is likely to be on the horizon, perhaps if a loved one is unwell, we might...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 18, 20232 min read


Common relationship roadblocks, and how to face them head on
What really winds you up in your relationships? Everyone is different, but there are common themes that seem to come up again and again...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 1, 20232 min read


What is the 'Let Them' theory?
This week I've spoken to BBC Radio and the News Movement all about the 'Let Them' theory. So, what is it, and why is it making such a...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 29, 20232 min read


Young people, and conversations about mental health
This week it's Mental Health Week, and we've seen some worrying statistics about how hard young people find it to talk about their mental...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 13, 20233 min read


What is 'Eldest Daughter Syndrome'?
It's not what you're thinking. 'Eldest Daughter Syndrome' isn't just a catch-all term for the eldest girl in a family with more than one...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 12, 20233 min read


Coping with nerves ahead of a big event
I was asked for some tips on coping with nerves ahead of a proposal. This might sound like a very specific area of anxiety - and likely...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 4, 20232 min read
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