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Here’s what I love about online therapy
My first experiences of counselling – both as a client and as a counsellor – were face-to-face in a therapy room. And when I started...

Georgina Sturmer
Aug 13 min read


What's the right way to grieve? And other big questions about loss
What’s the right way to grieve?
Do we really move through neat 'stages'? Do we have to let go — or finish grieving? In this blog, I explore what grief really looks like, why the Five Stages model might not fit everyone, and how newer ideas — like the Tonkin Model, the Dual Process Model, Continuing Bonds, and even neuroscience — can help us better understand and live with loss.

Georgina Sturmer
Mar 26 min read


How to find a therapist
It can be a daunting process, trying to find a therapist. I know, I’ve been there myself. Tripping up on jargon. Scrolling through...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 4, 20249 min read


Grieving someone we don't know. The complexities of 'parasocial relationships'
We don't have to know someone to feel a sense of grief or loss at the news of their death. This rang so true this week for everyone who...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 19, 20243 min read


Grief and distraction, do you bury yourself into your work?
Not everyone dreads Monday morning. Some of us are lucky enough to skip into the beginning of the week, doing a job that we love. But for...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 1, 20242 min read


Coping with the death of a colleague
When a colleague has died, it presents us with a clash of relationships, expectations, boundaries and behaviour. In most circumstances...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 17, 20243 min read


Coping with a relationship breakup
Regardless of the circumstances of our breakup, it can feel strange and unsettling to be newly single. I spoke to Yahoo News all about...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 12, 20243 min read


How to support a friend who has lost a loved one
Grief can leave us lost for words.
If you’re wondering how to support a friend who has lost a loved one, you’re not alone. This blog offers gentle, practical ideas to help you feel more confident in reaching out – whether it’s knowing what to say, what to offer, or when to simply be there.

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 26, 20244 min read


Love and loss, thinking about dating after bereavement
I've written before about dating after bereavement. Last time, the focus of the piece was on how we consider dating after bereavement,...

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 10, 20244 min read


Coping with trauma or loss during the holidays
Everywhere we turn, there's a reminder that the holiday season is on its way. It's inescapable. And for many of us, it's an exciting,...

Georgina Sturmer
Dec 13, 20232 min read


Coping with 'pre-death' grief, when grief comes before a loss
Sometimes grief comes before a loss. If we know that a loss is likely to be on the horizon, perhaps if a loved one is unwell, we might...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 18, 20232 min read


Navigating life after loss. How do you start dating after bereavement?
Navigating life after loss can be exhausting. For the Huffington Post's latest ‘Love Stuck’ column, I have responded to a reader whose...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 31, 20233 min read
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