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When is a Window more powerful than a Mirror? The 'Johari Window' and self-awareness
When is a window more powerful than a mirror?
Discover how the Johari Window—a simple but powerful model—can deepen your self-awareness by revealing what you and others see about yourself. Learn practical ways to use this tool both with others and on your own to boost your self-esteem and understand your patterns better.

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 94 min read
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Tired of Putting Everyone First? Let’s Talk About People Pleasing
Ever find yourself saying 'yes' when you really mean 'no'? Apologising for things that aren’t your fault? You're not alone. People...

Georgina Sturmer
May 234 min read
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How to spot red flags in your relationship
I spend a lot of time talking and thinking about our 'gut' feelings. Those spidey senses that things aren't quite right in our lives or...

Georgina Sturmer
May 73 min read
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How to overcome FOMO and embrace your alone time at Christmas
In case you haven't heard, Christmas is on the way. There's an expectation that our inbox will be awash with social invites. But what if...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 29, 20244 min read
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How to find a therapist
It can be a daunting process, trying to find a therapist. I know, I’ve been there myself. Tripping up on jargon. Scrolling through...

Georgina Sturmer
Nov 4, 20249 min read
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Grieving someone we don't know. The complexities of 'parasocial relationships'
We don't have to know someone to feel a sense of grief or loss at the news of their death. This rang so true this week for everyone who...

Georgina Sturmer
Oct 19, 20243 min read
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Managing your mental health while navigating divorce
When a relationship ends in divorce, we can experience a whole range of feelings. Some might feel understandable, some might feel...

Georgina Sturmer
Sep 17, 20243 min read
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The 5:1 ratio - Is this the key to a happy relationship?
Ever wondered if there’s a mathematical formula for a healthy, happy relationship ? I spoke to a journalist at iNews all about the idea...

Georgina Sturmer
Sep 4, 20241 min read
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Parenting and relationships: keeping your relationship on track when it comes to parenting decisions
Nurturing our relationships is something that takes time, energy, and conscious effort. And this can be challenging at the best of times....

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 31, 20242 min read
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Coping with dating app burnout
When dating websites and apps arrived on the scene, they were afforded a warm welcome. Being able to search online for the perfect match...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 29, 20242 min read
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Are you an approval addict? Exploring people-pleasing and approval-seeking
Are you an approval addict? I spoke to The Sun all about people-pleasing and approval-seeking. Click here to read the full article. To...

Georgina Sturmer
Jul 15, 20242 min read
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The truth about coercive control: warning signs, and what to do
When we talk about coercive control, we are talking about an act, or a series of acts, that are designed to manipulate, intimidate,...

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 28, 20244 min read
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How to cope when friendships shift and splinter
Our modern society allows us the opportunity for so much more diversity, transition and change in our life choices than ever before....

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 7, 20243 min read
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Are you hooked on praise? Exploring validation addiction
It's totally natural to seek validation from those around us. It's a human instinct. It's how we understand whether our behaviour is...

Georgina Sturmer
Jun 1, 20244 min read
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Coping with a relationship breakup
Regardless of the circumstances of our breakup, it can feel strange and unsettling to be newly single. I spoke to Yahoo News all about...

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 12, 20243 min read
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What can we learn from 'The Bird Test'?
Social media has led to an explosion in theories and new terminology to capture the essence of human behaviour. In previous posts, I've...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 26, 20243 min read
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Family estrangement: coping with conflict and crisis
We all know the phrase, 'you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family'. Some of us are fortunate enough to have...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 19, 20243 min read
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Relationships and money, are you financially compatible?
We're not very good at talking about money. Perhaps that's a terribly sweeping generalisation. But it often strikes me that even...

Georgina Sturmer
Feb 3, 20243 min read
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Parent Mental Health Day: creating positive family relationships
Tomorrow is 'Parent Mental Health Day', and this year's theme is all about 'creating positive relationships' in families. I was asked by...

Georgina Sturmer
Jan 26, 20242 min read
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How to stop comparing yourself to others and start feeling good about yourself
We all compare ourselves to others — it's human. But constant comparison can drain your confidence and leave you feeling “not enough.” In this post, I explore why we compare, how it impacts your self-worth, and practical ways to stop doing it — with compassion, curiosity, and real-life strategies that work.

Georgina Sturmer
Apr 14, 20236 min read
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